Conflict

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You are conflict averse. 
You can work on it, learn models for processing it, and even embrace the potential that emerges from conflict; in the end your aversion will not disappear. 
Conflict represents two things your brain cannot tolerate: uncertainty and danger. 


Conceptually, it is easy to “love” conflict because from a distance you can appreciate what it creates. 
In practice, maintaining that appreciation is far more challenging. 
While conflict aversion may remain, your ability to approach it from a place of values, curiosity, and commitment to growth will begin to balance out the uncertainty and danger. 



Long days call for long blacks,
- Morning Cup

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